First, Father Mother, we should give proportionate attention. When children come home from school, as a form of attention we ask our children what things are in school or class fun? Insha Allah later our children enthusiastically tell by the tone of happy, cheerful face shining, and intermittent smiles and laughter accompanied. And later closingnya we will convey "the true Mother said, learning / school was fun, because a lot of friends, studying together, met the father / mother teacher, grew smart and can play with small breaks with friends, deh ... So should add spirit! "do not forget to accompany when our children learn, do homework or assignment from the teacher ... yes.
Tips for Overcoming Child Lazy Learning Second, Mother Father, we must be careful to build closeness with our children, how can the casual chatting, joking lightly, slipping the message that school is important, it must be learned in order to perform, so the continued importance of knowledgeable, and tell the world great leaders successful as diligent reading, studious, smart, tenacious, never give up, creative, etc. so that they become successful people, great, famous, useful and well known people.
Third, Pray for our children. When they sleep, we woke up for night prayer, may we approach them, we stroked lovingly, after that we did Hypnosleep with the words that "Mother Father loves you very much, my dear! Yes diligent learning, because learning is fun. You must continue to learn and do not be bored to learn, because learning will make you smart. "
Fourth, Maybe we need to rearrange the room so that children learn children more comfortable and at ease in the study by observing the color of the walls are bright, bright lights, wide enough desks, shelves / bookcases are easy to reach, garnish support, and equipment complete stationery.
Fifth, Assist when studying at home. Offer to the children, if there are lessons that are difficult or not yet ready to understand Mother of Bantu. Give books exercises, so that students are not hesitant when work on the problems. Complete with a CD / DVD that supports education. Establish communication with the teachers in school because you actually are "the Dream Team."
Sixth, Give Reward with good / any small accomplishments made by our children. Mother father should not reward with expensive gifts, valuables, or require a huge budget too!. Not! Reward with a hug can be intimate, sincere smile, thumbs up, great words, great, incredible, Mother proud to have you, son, etc..
Mother father we must learn from the nature of Allah SWT, how Compassionate and penyayangnya Him to us as creatures. New goodwill has been recorded as a virtue and reward provided. When good intentions that we conducted, Allah multiply our merits. But when we intend evil / bad is not recorded as a sin. But if the bad intentions that we carry it then referred to as a sin.
But remember it is the Mother!, Reward / reward and punishment it is like a drug, the dose should be appropriate, if not then it would be appropriate dosage overdose and even be toxic. If we are accustomed to providing expensive gifts then increases with age of the child demands requested gift we too could have been more expensive and excessive, that the intelligence we need as parents. If you must give something in kind or gifts consider the benefits, safety, adjusted to the age and developmental berfikirnya, the effect or impact of the gift, given at the right moment so that more memorable, and do not forget the gifts should be packed with very interesting to make it more memorable in the memory of older children.
Mother dear dad, gifts should not be in the form of objects or gift ya! My personal opinion is if the gift in the form of fun activities with the greater benefit and impact will be remembered much longer because it is closer to the heart, full of togetherness, improve the quality of the meeting. So leisurely stroll with family along the edge of the return BKT and chicken porridge breakfast in the tavern, or stop by the bakery, it also has very unusual than jammed all the way to the top.
But if to-six trade above we have carried out apparently the result / value is not satisfactory as we had hoped, do not despair Mother, because the actual learning outcomes of our children depends not only ideally but the numerical value is directly proportional to the morals and worship. And Insha Allah, as time went on the personal responsibility of our children will grow up, to learn to be strong awareness, motivation internalpun will appear. So we have to have a stock of patience in educating our children. Insha Allah so fields goodness we as parents.
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